Khamis, 31 Oktober 2013

2222. Pemanggil tidak dikenali.

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ  , الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ , الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ ,  مَالِكِ يَوْمِ الدِّينِ , إِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِينُ , اهْدِنَا الصِّرَاطَ المُسْتَقِيمَ  , صِرَاطَ الَّذِينَ أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيْهِمْ , غَيْرِ المَغْضُوبِ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلاَ الضَّالِّينَ.



Assalamualaikum w.b.t/السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه
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Dalam menggunakan telefon kita kadang masa mendapat panggilan dari nombor yang tidak dikenali. Dalam lebih hebat lagi tiada tertera nombor pemanggil.

Untuk diri aku sendiri aku tidak berminat melayan jenis pemanggil yang ke dua. Bab ini aku tidak ingin komen lebih-lebih.

Ini ada satu kisah sebentar tadi aku baru kesempatan tengok telefon. Rupa-rupanya petang tadi aku ada tertera missed call. Time 18.55 hampir Azan Maghrib di tempat aku. Tertera +601292288XXX sebagai nombornya.

Jadi aku pun sms sebentar tadi. Hendak aku taip salam aku tidak pasti agama pemanggil. Orang Islam biasanya faham waktu-waktu tersebut bukanlah waktu sesuai membuat panggilan atau sms. Orang Islam biasanya waktu senja atau Maghrib biasanya berada di rumah. Kalau di luar rumah kerana perjalanan biasanya penganut Islam akan singgah di Masjid atau Surau untuk Solat Maghrib.

Yang kita lihat ramai di luar rumah waktu senja dan Maghrib siap dengan bayi lagi ialah Melayu. Kepada penganut agama lain atau bangsa lain, kena faham antara Islam dengan Melayu terlampau jauh bezanya. Ciri-ciri perlakuan yang jauh menyimpang dari sikap dan sifat Islam.

Inilah sms antara aku dengan pemanggil tidak dikenali itu tadi senja.

Aku - Maaf tanya. Siapa d sana.
XXX - SAYA ALEX.SAYA KENAL AWAK KE?

Aku - Tu td no kmu tertera sbg mzz call. dan sy beruntung tdk knl kamu.
XXX - Oh sorry.memang tadi saya terkan salah no. U kerja apa?

Aku - Maaf sbb sy tdk berminat menjawab soalan kamu, kerana sms kamu membuktikan diri kamu
         sering berfikir di luar kotak.
XXX - Oh sorry

Setakat itu smsnya.

R&O.

Nilai:
Islam menghormati waktu Maghrib. 

Zulfarizan Zakaria "FABI AYYI AALA IRABBIKUMA TUKAZZHIBAN" = Nikmat Tuhan Manakah Yang Engkau Hendak Dustakan?........muhasabah buat diri kite ni belake kerana Allah S.W.T..... 
Perhatian: Pemaparan tajuk-tajuk, gambar-gambar dan segala bagai, adalah pandangan dan pendapat peribadi yang lebih menjurus kepada sikap dan sifat untuk menjadi lebih baik dengan mengamalkan gaya hidup menurut perentah dan larangan Allah S.W.T., antaranya bersikap dengan tiada prasangka, tidak bertujuan untuk kebencian, tidak berkeperluan untuk bersubahat dengan perkara bohong dan tiada kaitan dan berkepentingan dengan mana-mana individu. Jujur., aku hanyalah hamba Allah S.W.T., yang hina dina. BERSANGKA BAIK KERANA ALLAH S.W.T.. 

urv.

2221. Megah dan penghinaan dalam satu masa.

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ  , الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ , الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ ,  مَالِكِ يَوْمِ الدِّينِ , إِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِينُ , اهْدِنَا الصِّرَاطَ المُسْتَقِيمَ  , صِرَاطَ الَّذِينَ أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيْهِمْ , غَيْرِ المَغْضُوبِ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلاَ الضَّالِّينَ.



Assalamualaikum w.b.t/السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه
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Garis Bulan terbelah - Kisah Nabi Muhammad SAW.. 

Apakah selagi apa yang bernama manusia, memang tidak lepas dari megah dan menghina?. Apakah aku pernah megah dan menghina?. Kisah Nabi Muhammad SAW diizinkan Allah SWT membelah bulan, apalah hebatnya seseorang manusia hendak bermegah dan menghina manusia lain. 

Ialah manusia dalam hidupnya ada syaitan laknatullah yang sentiasa jadi pengacau. Tewas manusia, syaitan laknatullah yang memporak-perandakan. Tewas manusia juga bererti manusia telah melanggar perentah dan larangan Allah SWT., malah tidak mematuhi seruan Nabi Muhammad SAW. 

Jadi manusia bukan mudah untuk bersederhana dalam serba serbi langkah. Pasti sekali lagi syaitan laknatullah muncul selaku pengacau. 
Alhamdulillah Allah S.W.T.. selamatkan saya

Kisah bagaimana seorang wanita terselamat dari menjadi mangsa kejahatan manusia juga memaparkan mengapa Allah SWT memberi perlindungan kepadanya. Penjahat melihatnya bersama lelaki lain sedangkan sebenarnya wanita itu sedang bersendirian "dalam keadaan cemas kerana Allah SWT." 

Rasa cemas berserta dengan memperteguhkan adanya Allah SWT telah menyelamatkna wanita tersebut. Amalan patuh perentah dan larangan Allah SWT telah menyelamatkan wanita tersebut dari musibah. Wanita itu memperolehi perlindungan dari Allah SWT. 

Dari dua peristiwa tersebut renungilah diri apa hebatnya seseorang dengan sifat bermegah-megah yang seterusnya menjuruskan seseorang kepada sifat menghina orang lain. Ah!, manusia tidak pernah lelah dari sifat sombong. Nauzubillah minzaliq. 

Zulfarizan Zakaria "FABI AYYI AALA IRABBIKUMA TUKAZZHIBAN" = Nikmat Tuhan Manakah Yang Engkau Hendak Dustakan?........muhasabah buat diri kite ni belake kerana Allah S.W.T..... 
Perhatian: Pemaparan tajuk-tajuk, gambar-gambar dan segala bagai, adalah pandangan dan pendapat peribadi yang lebih menjurus kepada sikap dan sifat untuk menjadi lebih baik dengan mengamalkan gaya hidup menurut perentah dan larangan Allah S.W.T., antaranya bersikap dengan tiada prasangka, tidak bertujuan untuk kebencian, tidak berkeperluan untuk bersubahat dengan perkara bohong dan tiada kaitan dan berkepentingan dengan mana-mana individu. Jujur., aku hanyalah hamba Allah S.W.T., yang hina dina. BERSANGKA BAIK KERANA ALLAH S.W.T..
urv.

2220. How to Reduce, Prevent, and Cope with Stress.

بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ  , الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِينَ , الرَّحْمَنِ الرَّحِيمِ ,  مَالِكِ يَوْمِ الدِّينِ , إِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِينُ , اهْدِنَا الصِّرَاطَ المُسْتَقِيمَ  , صِرَاطَ الَّذِينَ أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيْهِمْ , غَيْرِ المَغْضُوبِ عَلَيْهِمْ وَلاَ الضَّالِّينَ.


Assalamualaikum w.b.t/السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُه
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Stress Management

How to Reduce, Prevent, and Cope with Stress

Stress Help Center
It may seem that there’s nothing you can do about stress. The bills won’t stop coming, there will never be more hours in the day, and your career and family responsibilities will always be demanding. But you have more control than you might think. In fact, the simple realization that you’re in control of your life is the foundation of stress management. Managing stress is all about taking charge: of your thoughts, emotions, schedule, and the way you deal with problems

Identify the sources of stress in your life

Learn about hidden sources of stress

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Stress management starts with identifying the sources of stress in your life. This isn’t as easy as it sounds. Your true sources of stress aren’t always obvious, and it’s all too easy to overlook your own stress-inducing thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Sure, you may know that you’re constantly worried about work deadlines. But maybe it’s your procrastination, rather than the actual job demands, that leads to deadline stress.
To identify your true sources of stress, look closely at your habits, attitude, and excuses:
  • Do you explain away stress as temporary (“I just have a million things going on right now”) even though you can’t remember the last time you took a breather?
  • Do you define stress as an integral part of your work or home life (“Things are always crazy around here”) or as a part of your personality (“I have a lot of nervous energy, that’s all”).
  • Do you blame your stress on other people or outside events, or view it as entirely normal and unexceptional?
Until you accept responsibility for the role you play in creating or maintaining it, your stress level will remain outside your control.

Start a Stress Journal

A stress journal can help you identify the regular stressors in your life and the way you deal with them. Each time you feel stressed, keep track of it in your journal. As you keep a daily log, you will begin to see patterns and common themes. Write down:
  • What caused your stress (make a guess if you’re unsure)
  • How you felt, both physically and emotionally
  • How you acted in response
  • What you did to make yourself feel better

Look at how you currently cope with stress

Think about the ways you currently manage and cope with stress in your life. Your stress journal can help you identify them. Are your coping strategies healthy or unhealthy, helpful or unproductive? Unfortunately, many people cope with stress in ways that compound the problem. 

Unhealthy ways of coping with stress

These coping strategies may temporarily reduce stress, but they cause more damage in the long run:
  • Using pills or drugs to relax
  • Sleeping too much
  • Procrastinating
  • Filling up every minute of the day to avoid facing problems
  • Taking out your stress on others (lashing out, angry outbursts, physical violence)

Learning healthier ways to manage stress

If your methods of coping with stress aren’t contributing to your greater emotional and physical health, it’s time to find healthier ones. There are many healthy ways to manage and cope with stress, but they all require change. You can either change the situation or change your reaction. When deciding which option to choose, it’s helpful to think of the four As: avoid, alter, adapt, or accept.
Since everyone has a unique response to stress, there is no “one size fits all” solution to managing it. No single method works for everyone or in every situation, so experiment with different techniques and strategies. Focus on what makes you feel calm and in control.

Dealing with Stressful Situations: The Four A’s

Change the situation:
  • Avoid the stressor
  • Alter the stressor
Change your reaction:
  • Adapt to the stressor
  • Accept the stressor

Stress management strategy #1: Avoid unnecessary stress

Not all stress can be avoided, and it’s not healthy to avoid a situation that needs to be addressed. You may be surprised, however, by the number of stressors in your life that you can eliminate.
  • Learn how to say “no” – Know your limits and stick to them. Whether in your personal or professional life, refuse to accept added responsibilities when you’re close to reaching them. Taking on more than you can handle is a surefire recipe for stress.
  • Avoid people who stress you out – If someone consistently causes stress in your life and you can’t turn the relationship around, limit the amount of time you spend with that person or end the relationship entirely.
  • Take control of your environment – If the evening news makes you anxious, turn the TV off. If traffic’s got you tense, take a longer but less-traveled route. If going to the market is an unpleasant chore, do your grocery shopping online.
  • Avoid hot-button topics – If you get upset over religion or politics, cross them off your conversation list. If you repeatedly argue about the same subject with the same people, stop bringing it up or excuse yourself when it’s the topic of discussion.
  • Pare down your to-do list – Analyze your schedule, responsibilities, and daily tasks. If you’ve got too much on your plate, distinguish between the “shoulds” and the “musts.” Drop tasks that aren’t truly necessary to the bottom of the list or eliminate them entirely.

Stress management strategy #2: Alter the situation

If you can’t avoid a stressful situation, try to alter it. Figure out what you can do to change things so the problem doesn’t present itself in the future. Often, this involves changing the way you communicate and operate in your daily life.
  • Express your feelings instead of bottling them up. If something or someone is bothering you, communicate your concerns in an open and respectful way. If you don’t voice your feelings, resentment will build and the situation will likely remain the same.
  • Be willing to compromise. When you ask someone to change their behavior, be willing to do the same. If you both are willing to bend at least a little, you’ll have a good chance of finding a happy middle ground.
  • Be more assertive. Don’t take a backseat in your own life. Deal with problems head on, doing your best to anticipate and prevent them. If you’ve got an exam to study for and your chatty roommate just got home, say up front that you only have five minutes to talk.
  • Manage your time better. Poor time management can cause a lot of stress. When you’re stretched too thin and running behind, it’s hard to stay calm and focused. But if you plan ahead and make sure you don’t overextend yourself, you can alter the amount of stress you’re under.

Stress management strategy #3: Adapt to the stressor

If you can’t change the stressor, change yourself. You can adapt to stressful situations and regain your sense of control by changing your expectations and attitude.
  • Reframe problems. Try to view stressful situations from a more positive perspective. Rather than fuming about a traffic jam, look at it as an opportunity to pause and regroup, listen to your favorite radio station, or enjoy some alone time.
  • Look at the big picture. Take perspective of the stressful situation. Ask yourself how important it will be in the long run. Will it matter in a month? A year? Is it really worth getting upset over? If the answer is no, focus your time and energy elsewhere.
  • Adjust your standards. Perfectionism is a major source of avoidable stress. Stop setting yourself up for failure by demanding perfection. Set reasonable standards for yourself and others, and learn to be okay with “good enough.”
  • Focus on the positive. When stress is getting you down, take a moment to reflect on all the things you appreciate in your life, including your own positive qualities and gifts. This simple strategy can help you keep things in perspective.

Adjusting Your Attitude

How you think can have a profound effect on your emotional and physical well-being. Each time you think a negative thought about yourself, your body reacts as if it were in the throes of a tension-filled situation. If you see good things about yourself, you are more likely to feel good; the reverse is also true. Eliminate words such as "always," "never," "should," and "must." These are telltale marks of self-defeating thoughts.

Stress management strategy #4: Accept the things you can’t change

Some sources of stress are unavoidable. You can’t prevent or change stressors such as the death of a loved one, a serious illness, or a national recession. In such cases, the best way to cope with stress is to accept things as they are. Acceptance may be difficult, but in the long run, it’s easier than railing against a situation you can’t change.
  • Don’t try to control the uncontrollable. Many things in life are beyond our control— particularly the behavior of other people. Rather than stressing out over them, focus on the things you can control such as the way you choose to react to problems.
  • Look for the upside. As the saying goes, “What doesn’t kill us makes us stronger.” When facing major challenges, try to look at them as opportunities for personal growth. If your own poor choices contributed to a stressful situation, reflect on them and learn from your mistakes.
  • Share your feelings. Talk to a trusted friend or make an appointment with a therapist. Expressing what you’re going through can be very cathartic, even if there’s nothing you can do to alter the stressful situation.
  • Learn to forgive. Accept the fact that we live in an imperfect world and that people make mistakes. Let go of anger and resentments. Free yourself from negative energy by forgiving and moving on.

Stress management strategy #5: Make time for fun and relaxation

Beyond a take-charge approach and a positive attitude, you can reduce stress in your life by nurturing yourself. If you regularly make time for fun and relaxation, you’ll be in a better place to handle life’s stressors when they inevitably come. 

Healthy ways to relax and recharge

  • Go for a walk.
  • Spend time in nature.
  • Call a good friend.
  • Sweat out tension with a good workout.
  • Write in your journal.
  • Take a long bath.
  • Light scented candles.
  • Savor a warm cup of coffee or tea.
  • Play with a pet.
  • Work in your garden.
  • Get a massage.
  • Curl up with a good book.
  • Listen to music.
  • Watch a comedy.
Don’t get so caught up in the hustle and bustle of life that you forget to take care of your own needs. Nurturing yourself is a necessity, not a luxury.
  • Set aside relaxation time. Include rest and relaxation in your daily schedule. Don’t allow other obligations to encroach. This is your time to take a break from all responsibilities and recharge your batteries.
  • Connect with others. Spend time with positive people who enhance your life. A strong support system will buffer you from the negative effects of stress.
  • Do something you enjoy every day. Make time for leisure activities that bring you joy, whether it be stargazing, playing the piano, or working on your bike.
  • Keep your sense of humor. This includes the ability to laugh at yourself. The act of laughing helps your body fight stress in a number of ways.

Stress management strategy #6: Adopt a healthy lifestyle

You can increase your resistance to stress by strengthening your physical health. 
  • Exercise regularly. Physical activity plays a key role in reducing and preventing the effects of stress. Make time for at least 30 minutes of exercise, three times per week. Nothing beats aerobic exercise for releasing pent-up stress and tension.
  • Eat a healthy diet. Well-nourished bodies are better prepared to cope with stress, so be mindful of what you eat. Start your day right with breakfast, and keep your energy up and your mind clear with balanced, nutritious meals throughout the day.
  • Reduce caffeine and sugar. The temporary "highs" caffeine and sugar provide often end in with a crash in mood and energy. By reducing the amount of coffee, soft drinks, chocolate, and sugar snacks in your diet, you’ll feel more relaxed and you’ll sleep better.
  • Avoid alcohol, cigarettes, and drugs. Self-medicating with alcohol or drugs may provide an easy escape from stress, but the relief is only temporary. Don’t avoid or mask the issue at hand; deal with problems head on and with a clear mind.
  • Get enough sleepAdequate sleep fuels your mind, as well as your body. Feeling tired will increase your stress because it may cause you to think irrationally.
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More Help for Stress Management

Relaxation Techniques Relaxation Techniques – By practicing techniques that activate your body’s relaxation response you can effectively combat stress and ease tension.
Quick Stress Relief Stress Relief in the Moment – Identify your own stress responses and learn how to quickly and effectively reduce stress in the middle of any challenging situation.
How to Stop Worrying How to Stop Worrying – You can break the habit of chronic worrying by training your brain to stay calm and overcome persistent doubts and fears.
Harvard Logo Stress Relief Guide – Learn more about stress challenges that you can learn to cope with.

Causes of Stress

Understanding Stress Understanding Stress – Learn to recognize the signs and symptoms of stress and take steps to relieve its harmful effects.
Stress at Work Stress at Work – Excessive stress can interfere with your productivity and reduce your physical and emotional health. Learn tips for keeping job stress in check.
Job Loss & Unemployment Job Loss and Unemployment Stress – Find tips for staying positive during your job search and maintaining your spirits in tough times.
Caregiver Burnout Caregiving Stress & Burnout – Family caregiving can be stressful, especially if you don't take care of yourself. Find tips for recharging and finding balance.

Free Toolkit Program

Bring Your Life Into Balance If you feel too overwhelmed to put these tips into practice, repair what may be the source of the problem–an inability to stop worrying or manage overwhelming stress and emotions. Take advantage of Helpguide's free Bring Your Life Into Balance emotional self-help toolkit. This resource can help you learn to manage deeper, older and more complex sources of stress.
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Sumber dan cadangan melebarkan jaringan pengetahuan:
i).  Ibu.
ii). Stress Management - How to Reduce, Prevent, and Cope with Stress.
iii). Mind Tools - Stress Management Techniques.
iv). American Heart Assiociation - Stress Management
v).  Singapore's Health Care Lessons for the U.S.
vi). Singapore - The World's Choice Healtcare Destination.
vii). National Healthcare Group (NHG).
viii). Health Services & Outcomes Research
ix).  Institute of Mental Health.
x).  Getting to IMH - Buangkok Green Medical Park, 10 Buangkok View, Singapore 539747
xi). IMHospital Singapore. Institute of Mental Health/Woodbridge Hospital Singapore
xii).  Laman Web Rasmi Jabatan Kesihatan Negeri Johor
xiii). Hospital Permai, Johor Bahru
xiv). Malaysia Central - Information Directory Medical Hospitals
xv).   WHO in Indonesia - Health System (World Health Organization)
xvi).  Health of Nations - Indonesia
xvii). Indonesia - Healthcare and Medical Treatment
xviii). Brunei to implement new Healthcare Information System
xix).  Brunei Darussalam - Key Information on Brunei - HEALTH. 
xx).   The Crisis of Russian Health Care and Attempts at Reform
xxi).  Spain, Russia, and the US: A Medical Comparison
xxii). Healthcare in Russia
xxiii). Britain's Health Care System: Its Problems Continue
xxiv).  U.S. health care system doesn't measure up - to Britain's?
xxv).  The Dutch Health Care System. (Holland or Netherlands).
xxvi). Mental health care in Germany: current state and trends
xxvii).  Longitudinal statistics of mental health care in Germany
xxviii). Japan - Review of Mental Health Care Reform
xxix).  Can Our Mental Health Care System be Healed?
xxx).    Iraq: Mental healthcare helps Iraqis rebuild their lives
xxxi).   Mental Health Lessons in Mandarin China
xxxii).  Module 8: Improving Mental Health Care - Goals, Strategies, and Considerations
xxxiii). International Medical Graduates (IMGs) - Australian
xxxiv). Aku doakan moga dirimu bahagia hingga ke akhir hayatmu

Tribute for My Life. 
Zulfarizan Zakaria "FABI AYYI AALA IRABBIKUMA TUKAZZHIBAN" = Nikmat Tuhan Manakah Yang Engkau Hendak Dustakan?........muhasabah buat diri kite ni belake kerana Allah S.W.T..... 

Perhatian: Pemaparan tajuk-tajuk, gambar-gambar dan segala bagai, adalah pandangan dan pendapat peribadi yang lebih menjurus kepada sikap dan sifat untuk menjadi lebih baik dengan mengamalkan gaya hidup menurut perentah dan larangan Allah S.W.T., antaranya bersikap dengan tiada prasangka, tidak bertujuan untuk kebencian, tidak berkeperluan untuk bersubahat dengan perkara bohong dan tiada kaitan dan berkepentingan dengan mana-mana individu. Jujur., aku hanyalah hamba Allah S.W.T., yang hina dina. BERSANGKA BAIK KERANA ALLAH S.W.T..
urv.